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just all of 23, and yet so fast 24.
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wheee end of the week!
the weekend looms over my head and the only thing i can think about is the amount of work i have to do during the next two days so that i dun get piled with work over the next week!
sigh..and hereith begins an undergraduate life..which i should not be complaining about since im gonna be missing it much in a few months time..
ok am effectively shutting up about school. cuz it just leads to a circle..first i'll complain about it..then i'll start talking about how much i'll miss it..then i'll start feeling sobby and nostalgic then i'll start reminiscing on the past..and yada yada yada..
rite. shutting up.
am missing my vik very much these days..i dunno why cuz we rarely meet often anyways..so i'm usually used to not metting him in 2 weeks or sth..but dunno why..hmmm..feel like meeting him tmr and spending the day with him but he's working and so will only get to meet him at night at e function.. where about 20 or so other people will be there..and most of them are HIS family and HIS friends so i wun get much time with him aniweis. haiks.
its so weird seeing me type this cuz i RARELY miss him. mygod am i menopausing?!? *GASP*
aniweis i HAVE TO blog about this..like a few weeks ago (ok this is really outdated) i was watching the 130am suntv movies cuz i needed some noise accompanienment to study..and GOD i can't stress enough how PISSED i was after watching that movie!!!
here's what the movie is about...
A(man) and B(woman) are married. they have a beautiful life together. young couple, very loving and both quite good-looking (played by Sivakumar and Lekshmi respectively..it was a 1980s movie...)..
only problem is that they're childless and have been trying for quite some time...add more pressure by A's dad who lives with them and keeps commenting that he wants a grandSON to play with..note..its grand-"SON"..
sexist point number 1.
aniweis during one of the scenes..they *flash-back* to their 1st year anniversary..where A has just returned from Bangkok *sawadee* for a business trip and B is unpacking his luggage for him..and finds a comb with a long strand of hair.
after much drama..A admits that he had sex with a women in bkk cuz according to him "he was lonely and there was a women wanting him and SO its not his fault.."
sexist point number 2...
and ALTHOUGH B cries like a lot and screams and trashes about..she eventually forgives him when he promises he wun do it again..AND EVEN CONCEDES THAT HE COULDNT HELP IT and goes ahead to ahem-ahem with him THAT SAME VERY DAY!!
sexist point number 3..
aniweis back to current day..so after some time..they find a cyst in both her ovaries and had to remove her womb..so B can't get pregnant. ever *ba baaaam*
her COW-HERD tells her how he got his cow impregnanted with a sperm of a bull in another city cuz he wanted strong calves. so she gets a idea... *surrogacy* and so decides to look for a surrogate mum..in comes in C (played by a very slim sexy Sri Priya)..a wannabe-actress who will agree to do it for $..
B manages to convince A and he agrees cuz he just wants her to be happy AAAAAAw. yah.rite.
aniweis C gets impregnanted with the sperm (by a doctor of course) and so far, A and C never met as B doesnt want them to.. fearing A will get seduced by her..hmm..wonder why..
she keeps C in her guest house very very far away and sets rules that she is not to leave e house, make phone calls etc..but C itchy hand and thru circumstances will happend to find out who A is..and will fall in love with him... oooh..
then A will also find out but not interested in her..just wants to find out how the carrier of his child is..she though starts lusting for him and wants to continously see him and even blames him saying that HIS child (im guessing the hormones) are making her feel that way...
A then feels bad and comes back to see C. then. they end up having a r'ship!!!!! not only do they secretly see each other, they take a trip together lying to B. A lies that he has a business meeting and C lies that her mum is dying and she needs to go see her. during that trip they have sex. and im guessing it continues even after that trip.
B finds out A lied to her as she called his office. A screams at her saying to mind her own business. B gets sad but blames it on HERSELF saying a man can do a 1000 things and she shdn't get suspicious over everything.
Sexist point number 4.
B then also finds out C has been having sex cuz dr told her during a check-up. she gets VERY upset and stops talking to C, saying that she betrayed her and everything is going wrong and blabla
C goes into labour and rushed to e hospital where she demands to want to see A. B is confused cuz she assumes they have never met before. She then overhears C telling everything to the doctor. obviously she cries and struggles and leaves e hospital.
A comes in with his dad and dad says A has told him what has happened. A'S DAD FORGIVES THEM AS HE SAID THEY BOTH COULDNT HELP IT cuz pregnant women usually want to be with their husbands so ITS NOT THEIR FAULT!!! hello is Mr A suffering from hormonal imbalance too????
BLOODY STUPID SEXIST POINT 5.
C gives birth, passes baby to A and says she's leaving cuz she feels bad for betraying B.
NOW SHE FEELS BAD.
but B has left e house and went dunno-where. A is remorseful and puts out a newspaper add looking for her, saying that the child needs a mother...
B comes back but says she is only there as a maid to look after e child and refuses to forgive B.
i was so happy to see this..
then......A COUGHS. AND B RUSHES TO HIS SIDE. AND THEY MAKE UP.
THE MOVIE ENDS.
WHAT DA??????????
so a man can cheat as many times as he wants on his wife??? and he will get forgiven if he coughs/sneezes/hiccups????
such a bloody fucking sexist movie! was so pissed after watching it i was fuming and cldnt even sleep..and kept dreaming about chopping off men's heads..arghhhhh. and i can't believed the women agreet to act in it! arghhhh!!!!!!!! and i think it became a hit!!! *faints*
so so angry..why do indian women forgive cheating so easily? is it expected in a indian marriage? like in the Manual of Indian Marriages its written..
Rule #511 If men cheats, forgive him, he can't help it. Instead have more sex with him because its YOUR fault he's cheating! naughty naughty wife! burn yourself!!
if vik ever cheats on me, i will castrate him and NEVER forgive him.
i know "never say never" but i've seen enough of cheating/phillandering bfs/husbands and i dunno how people can forgive. maybe some can bring themselves to cuz they dun wan2 see sth that was so wonderful end cuz of a mistake. but all i can think about is "he cheated.he can do it again"
and the worst is women thinking its their fault cuz they haven given their men enough to be satisfied so its NATURAL for them to want more.
bullshit. if men think they are not getting enough. TALK TO THE WOMEN. if u can't reach a commen consensus GIVE IN! *either one* or stop being so HORNY!!
i dunno maybe im too harsh. i do know of some men who were truly remourseful and had to go through hell to prove that they are changed. but if it ever was me..even if i forgive him, i would never truly trust him again.
i mean, if they truly love you, why go looking for more? would he forgive u if u went sleeping ard? i dun think so.
argh. stupid movie.
ok just wanted to rant..